Wednesday, January 29, 2014

Renee Maccabe on Essential Oils

I am a Mom to two sweet kids and we have another on the way.  I have learned a lot about the benefits of using essential oils.  doTERRA essential oils have saved us many trips to the doctor’s office.


A stomach bug was going around a few months ago and my daughter ended up getting it.  She ended up throwing up for about 4 hours in the middle of the night.  We used DigestZen (Digestive Blend) on her stomach and put it on her feet too.  She was fine in the morning.  My friends who also got the stomach bug ended up sick all weekend.  I am so thankful for essential oils!!


DigestZen may be useful for improving digestive function.  Common primary uses: Bloating, constipation, Cramps (abdominal), Diarrhea, Food Poisoning, Heartburn, Nausea…


Here are the oils in this blend:
Ginger: may help reduce feelings of nausea and motion sickness.
Peppermint: anti-inflammatory.  It may also be beneficial for counteracting food poisoning, vomiting, diarrhea, constipation, flatulence, halitosis, colic, nausea and motion sickness.
Tarragon: may help reduce intestinal spasms, nervous and sluggish digestion…
Fennel: may Help improve digestive function by supporting the liver.
Caraway: antiparasitic and antispasmodic.  
Coriander: antispasmodic and has anti-inflammatory properties.  May also help with indigestion, flatulence, diarrhea…
Anise: may help calm and strengthen the digestive system.


I also like that I do not feel like a victim when it comes to my families’ health.  I put On Guard on my kids everyday, I do not have to wait for them to get sick.


On Guard Essential Oil blend is a protective blend. It helps to build your immune system and protect you from the germs you come in contact with.


The oils in the blend have been studied for their strong abilities to kill harmful bacteria, mold and viruses. You can diffuse it to clean the air or be used to clean and purify household surfaces.


Here are the oils in the blend.
Wild Orange: antibacterial, anti-fungal, antiseptic, powerful disinfectant and very effective against colds and flu.
Clove Bud: antibacterial, anti-fungal, anti-infectious, antiparasitic, antiseptic, antiviral and immune stimulant.
Cinnamon Bark: purifier, antibacterial, anti-infectious, anti-inflammatory, antimicrobial, antiviral...
Eucalyptus Radiata: helps the respiratory system, as well as strong antibacterial and antiseptic properties...
Rosemary: antiseptic, anti-infectious, helps reduce mental fatigue...


Why do I use doTERRA essential oils?  “doTERRA’s Certified Pure Therapeutic Grade essential oils are guaranteed to be 100% pure and natural and free of synthetic compounds or contaminates. They are subjected to rigorous mass spectrometry and gas chromatography testing to ensure extract composition and activity.”


Feel free to visit my doTERRA page at http://www.mydoterra.com/reneemaccabe/  or my facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/ReneeMaccabeDoterra

Monday, January 27, 2014

Mother Appreciation Day… NOT to be confused with Mother’s Day

Mother Appreciation Day… NOT to be confused with Mother’s Day

I have the most amazing mother in the world… and pretty much anyone who knows her would agree. My parents divorced when I was very young and my mom went back to school. For years she worked on her generals and pre-requisites while working, but the Hygiene program she got into was in Rangely, Colorado, an hour and a half drive from home. So for two, long and intense years, she drove there and back everyday. 

My 3 siblings and I kept each other “in line,” when mom wasn’t home…which often led to many wrestling matches in an attempt to get each other to do our chores or homework. Despite the fights, we grew close during those years and learned to rely on one another. To this day, I’m amazed there were no major injuries or that my brothers never burnt the house down. We definitely had many angels watching out for us (many in the form of our dear neighbors and friends)!

The real miracle, however, was my mother. Her day started around 4:00 am, getting up to finish homework, get ready, prep things for our day, write us a note and be out the door by 5:30 am. Then she'd drive an hour and a half to school. After a full day of classes, labs, and study groups she’d rush home to make dinner, help us with our projects and homework, then after we were in bed, she’d be up sometimes until 1:00 am doing her homework, get a few hours of sleep then wake up and do it again. And after two years of this she even graduated with honors at the top of her class! She basically put “wonder woman” to shame!

New trials popped up everyday and, at times, I'm sure we were absolute terrors. But my siblings and I could tell when Mom was on the verge of breaking down. It was during these times that we invented “Mother Appreciation Day” (not to be confused with Mother’s Day)! It could be on any random day that we felt mom needed to know we really appreciated all that she was doing. We thrived on being sneaky with our planning preparations (it made it more exciting). We’d try to clean the house, make dinner, maybe write her a card or buy her flowers. Then when she’d walk through the door we’d yell “SURPRISE!” or “HAPPY MOTHER APPRECIATION DAY!” 

Now that I’m a mom, I realize how exhausting and thankless of a job it can be at times… and it makes me appreciate my own mom (and all the other strong women in my life). Mother’s Day is nice, but one day of gratitude just isn’t enough. It doesn’t have to be as planned or formal as what my siblings and I did for our mom back then, but there’s a million nice things we can do to show our love. A note, an afternoon of no arguments, cleaning without being asked, or even a simple “thank you.” Today I was thinking of my mother and everything she’s done for me throughout my life; always putting our needs above her own. I’m grateful to have such an amazing mother to look up to; hopefully I can be that kind of mom to my children. So this is my random “Mother Appreciation Moment” to my dear mamma! Thanks for always being there for me and for being my perfect example of the the mom I want to be. I love you so much!

Monday, January 20, 2014

Twin-To-Twin Transfusion Syndrome- Bryce and Chayce

      In March 2010, after two early unexplainable miscarriage’s, we found out we were pregnant with
identical twins, Surprise! We were so happy and scared at the same time. The first part of the pregnancy
was pretty good, besides my uncontrollable all day sickness! We got to watch our two very active
playful, babies play together on our monthly ultrasounds. Little did we know how wonderfully important
these moments were, we actually have an ultrasound picture of Bryce grabbing Chayce’s face and
kissing his forehead<3.
 On July 21, 2010 we found out we were having boys, the same day we found out
my sweet boys, Bryce & Chayce had twin-to-twin transfusion syndrome, I just remember my Ob/Gyn,
my friend and one of my greatest allies in this battle, holding me as we cried together, we were sent to
Cincinnati children’s hospital, where they knew little bit more about this horrible syndrome. During the
following weeks we went back and forth (we live in Louisville, KY) to Cincinnati numerous times. After,
millions of tests, scans, and meetings and about two weeks it was decided we would undergo an amino-reduction to relieve some of the pressure off of Bryce’s side and give Chayce some more room. Bryce the
bigger of the two (our lil recipient) showed no signs of heart damage, or hydrops, as we were told that
this was the biggest risk to him. They then explained to us Chayce our lil tiny fella (donor) already
showed dilated ventricles in his brain, from his lack of nutrients, and he was “stuck”, he wrapped by the
very membrane that was supposed to be protecting him; they told us he was in the most danger of the
two, at this time.
  After the reduction and a couple more trips back and forth to Cincinnati. , Our boy’s
fluid was staying stable and their health and growth was beginning to improve, I began to let my guard
down and finally think, “wow I can breathe”. Then on Friday August 6, 2010 we were told there had
been a sudden spike in Bryce’s fluid again and a drop in Chayce’s, he had become “stuck again”. Both
boys remained stable no new health concerns but it was now time to consider surgery. On the morning
of Monday August 9, 2010 we underwent the Placental ablation surgery, as this was my boy’s last
chance of survival. After the surgery was over, the doctors cheered and exclaimed this was a fantastic
success, they had completed the “perfect split ”Chayce(Donor)was now receiving 60% while Bryce     (recipient) was receiving 40%,both boys were alive and looking great! The next morning on August 10,
2010 with great excitement from the ultrasound tech, we had an ultrasound to see our boys.
 We began with Chayce, our little fragile donor he had pulled through, he was moving all around! Then next we went to our sweet baby Bryce, our big strong recipient. He just laid there asleep with his thumb in his
mouth. Our Sweet, brave strong Boy had gone to Heaven to live with God and watch over his twin
brother forever. We were told to go home and prepare ourselves to lose Chayce, while he had jumped a
huge hurdle, a miracle in fact (he was the smaller weaker twin which we were told they are almost
never the sole survivor) he was only 24 weeks and he more than likely would be born in the next 8-10
weeks and could not survive, his only chance, very slim but chance none the less, was for me to stay
calm, if and when I became upset it lowered his oxygen.
  So we came home to Louisville & went to our
regular Ob/Gyn & High risk, I remember I just lost it. How was I supposed to be a good mommy and
continue to fight as hard as I could for Chayce, while my heart ached so badly for Bryce?!?! & I refused
to accept that Chayce couldn't make it, he had fought so hard, and was so brave and strong! He was/is
my child and I would not/ will not give up on him! My little tiny sweet doctor rushed into the room &
hugged me as we cried together and she told me that as always she would continue to fight right
alongside of us and that she had faith that Chayce could and would make it! & it was okay to be sad and
cry for Bryce. So we hoped and prayed for my lil bitty boy to hold on and “cook” a little longer and to
pull through. He had his big strong guardian angel, my sweet brave Bryce to watch over him and hold his
hand.
  Well over the next 10 weeks, I was seen twice a week to monitor Chace’s growth which was slow
but steady, also I was given two rounds of steroids to help his lungs grow at 33 weeks and then on
November 11, the ultrasound showed he had not grown any in the past two weeks and had actually
fallen below the percentile. So they decided to admit me and monitor him until the following morning,
giving my parents and brothers time to get here from Texas.
  On November 12, 2010, Bryce Lee Scott (born asleep) a little under a pound and Chayce Allen Scott, 3lbs 5oz and 17 inches long were born at 34 weeks! He had made it, and he scored all 9s and 10s on the agar scale and was breathing on his own!
 We stayed in the NICU 20 days, and the day we left, the funeral home called us to let us know we could
come pick up Bryce( he had been cremated) .We finally brought both our boys home. Not the way we
had dreamed, not in two car seats, not in matching outfits, but together. As for Chayce, we have small
struggles but he amazes me every day! He is a true miracle. Every day I think of the son and brother we
have lost and thank god for the one we have! I am so proud both of my boys they both fought so hard
and Chayce continues every day! They said my son would never live, he did, they told me Chayce
wouldn't breathe on his own, he did. He shows me and all of his doctors that he is a fighter and is going
to be just fine! He has a sweet lil angel by his side to help him along the way.
 I struggle with the loss of my son every day, as the time passes, the “bad moments” get less, & they don’t cut as deep, they don’t take my breath away, but they still happen. The most random things can set me off, seeing twin boys playing at the park, seeing a butterfly flapping his wings, Watching Chayce & our new baby Mckynzie, play or opening presents. I cant help but think of what could have/ should have been. I should have gotten to take “big belly” maternity pictures with both my boys kissing my belly, I should get to have a
Sully to go with my lil mike for Halloween, I should get asked all the “stupid” questions about identical
twins by excited & intrigued strangers! But I don’t, that’s not my life<3 I have & love all five (including
my miscarriages), of my beautiful Children, Just three of them live in heaven, & Thank God that Im lucky
enough to watch two of them grow up & I am thankful for them every moment of everyday, but that
doesn’t Change I miss Bryce & I always will<3.
 If I could a grieving parent one piece of advice it would be:
You have to give yourself time, you lost a piece of your heart, & while it will heal there will always be a
that piece missing, there is no right or wrong way to grieve, & no set amount of time to do it in! take
your time & let yourself cry & know while it will never stop hurting, the pain will dull, it does get better, I
promise<3

Wednesday, January 15, 2014

Tacen's Story

Hi my name is Kelsie. I am a 26 year mother of an angel, a crazy, fun-loving 20 month old little boy named Daxon and we are expecting our first girl in May 2014. I've been asked to do a guest post and share a summary of our experience of losing our son and share a few things that have helped me cope with his loss.
It all started in July 2010 we welcomed our first child, a handsome baby boy, Tacen! He was everything I could have ever hoped for and so much more. He developed normally and was a happy little boy. In late August 2011 we moved across the country for my husband to go to Optometry school. During this time we moved away from everything and everyone we'd known. When we arrived Tacen had what we labeled a regression and he stopped walking. He was getting molars at the time and we worried we had traumatized him.
He continued to have regressions over the next year. He would struggle walking during this time and overtime he affected his walking. We really began to realize there was a problem around May 2012. We scheduled an appointment with his pediatrician who referred us to an orthopedic pediatrician, he did x-rays and couldn't find anything out of the norm. At that point we were referred to a neurologist. The neurologist recommended we get an MRI and move forward from there.
To keep a long story short they couldn't find anything really causing his walking difficulties. In late October 2012 he had a regression and this time he was throwing up very inconsistently along with the lack of walking. This was alarming to us and cause for additional concern. We got him into his neurologist on Monday, Oct. 21, 2012. He recommended he have him admitted so we could expedite testing since he was already regressing.
Over the next few days he kept declining in health. They couldn't pin point what it was that was ailing him. Those days were some of the hardest and longest days of life. During this time we prayed for a miracle. We knew that our Heavenly Father could give us a miracle if it was His will. Sunday, Oct. 28 we were ready to accept our Heavenly Father's will for us. We prayed and expressed to Him that we knew that He could perform a miracle, but if that wasn't His will for Tacen and our family we were ready to let him go. That was the hardest decision we've ever made. We knew Tacen's little body couldn't hold on much longer!
The next evening Monday, October 29, 2012 our sweet Tacen returned to a loving Heavenly Father and we left the hospital without our little boy with us.
Since that time I have had many opportunities to learn and grow. Throughout the last almost year and half one of the things I've strived to do is find the simple joys and positives that come into my life because of Tacen and having him in my life. I wouldn't trade the short 28 months we were able to have him in our life and with us here on earth for anything. I learned so much from that sweet boy and I continue to learn so much from his example!
A big thing I've learned is that everyone grieves differently and that is perfectly, OK! No two people will handle the loss of a loved one the same. Going through this process I've learned that I need to take the time that I need to grieve, to miss my little boy and I need to do this in my own way. The way that I have handled things and grieved is much different than even my husband! You know what? That's ok! Most of all I've learned there is no right or wrong way to deal with a loss. You have to do what work for you!
There's not a day that goes by that I don't think of my sweet boy. There's not a day that passes that I don't miss him. But our sweet Tacen was an example of life, joy and happiness. He had many physical struggles more than I think we even realized at the time. Yet he was the little engine that could (a favorite story of his). I know that he would want me to go on and be happy. I know he is watching over me and I know I'll see him again, so I am trying to live the life I have the best I can. I still have purpose here and I want to make him proud!
I hope this will be helpful in some way to someone out there. You are welcome to read our full story at http://tacensstory.blogspot.com/ This blog has been a way of helping me grieve and cope with the loss of Tacen. It find it very therapeutic to write things down and express my feelings.

Sunday, January 12, 2014

Why I'm Not Afraid of Fat


We used to drink skim milk and buy fat-free sour cream, just like much of health-conscious America.
Lowfat salad dressings, reduced-fat snack crackers, white meat instead of dark -- that was the regimen.

About 3 years ago, after reading the book Real Food, I finally decided to buy one gallon of whole milk.
It took a lot of will-power not to take it back out of the cart before I reached the check-out; and then at home, I was practically trembling with anxiety about actually ingesting the stuff. Mentally, I had become convinced that it was the better choice, but emotionally there was so much invested in the low-fat endeavor, and such a strong stigma associated with eating fat.

It didn't even occur to me until this daring shift, 3 years ago, that maybe the reports of fat's evil nature weren't
entirely true. It was what everyone said, what every health article was full of, and if you looked around you, it
certainly seemed like you could make the connection between people eating fatty junk and getting sicker
and fatter themselves. But, I've begun to see that fat is not necessarily scary or even fattening. Here's why.

No fats are exclusively one 'type' or another, they're all a mix. Olive oil, which is probably the only fat never to have fallen out of favor, is touted for its monounsaturated bounties; it's roughly 75% monounsaturated oleic acid. But guess what other foods have more monounsaturated fats than they do saturated? Egg yolks and lard. Ground beef. Chicken thighs, both with skin and without. In fact, they have more oleic acid than they do any other specific kind of fatty acid. So we've really been oversimplifying and vilifying the fats in our foods.

(And if you don't believe me, I just double-checked the breakdown of each of those on nutritiondata.self.com and skipthepie.org, you can go play with that too.)

Another oversimplification the powers-that-be have taught us is that metabolism is an engine that burns
whatever you put into it, and keeps the extra as fat. Calories in, burn 'em or store 'em, right? It turns out
that in reality, metabolism is a complex medical subject that has infinite individual variations. It depends on
all sorts of biofeedback loops and hormonal messengers, and reacts to different types of food in organ-specific ways. It's been fascinating to read about. I'm now convinced that you can, indeed, eat high-quality fat without putting it straight into your spare tire -- even if you're not running marathons on the side!

Lastly, it turns out that some of our most important organs and systems specifically rely on fats and cholesterol. Our body must get or manufacture enough to keep making hormones, cell membranes, and the majority of our brain tissue; to correctly absorb vital nutrients and keep them in balance; and our hard-working heart muscle actually prefers fat for its fuel. Let's get into a few details here for a minute.

We cannot live well without estrogen, testosterone, vitamin D, bile, and natural steroids, for example; their
lack hovers under the surface of a lot of the metabolic problems and inflammatory traps our bodies are falling
into these days. Popular wisdom teaches us that sunshine is an ingredient in vitamin D; cholesterol is actually
the other. It is the basic building block of that entire list of hormones, and also plays a role in repairing cellular
damage and allowing our neurons to communicate.

Next, cell membranes. We each have trillions and trillions of them, and they are active little buggers, constantly shuttling molecules in and out and directing communications within and without the cell. And -- no surprise -- they rely on fat and cholesterol for structural integrity and flexibility. The mix of fats and cholesterol have a profound effect on the 'floppiness' or 'stiffness' of the membranes and their ability to do their job. I'm not clear yet on what exactly that implies in terms of our food intake, because the research is still in an early phase; but I'm watching it, and I'd put a pretty big bet on seeing studies eventually show up that demonstrate the benefits of a more traditionally fat-based diet.

One of the bigger surprises to me was the fact that heart muscle -- and skeletal muscle, as well -- prefers
to burn shorter-chain fatty acids. (These are the types of fat typically found in butter, coconut oil, or even
goat cheese.) Working muscle can essentially swipe those types of fat right out of your gut and use them
at the cellular level without needing them to be digested first. I think that's incredible.

You know, hopefully, that oil and water don't mix; when you ingest fats, then, it first requires a process called
emulsification to get them into a form your mostly water-based body can take in. In your digestive tract, the
smallest fats (the kind your muscles crave) can diffuse straight into the bloodstream and be immediately
burned as fuel. The larger ones are worked on by secretions from your liver and pancreas, then packaged
into specialized droplets that are put into the lymph system to circulate. They're finally dumped back into
the bloodstream to be broken down by enzymes in the blood vessels themselves and carried where they're
needed. Or to the liver, if nowhere else claims them.

Does anyone but me think that sounds a little crazy? That all those long, floppy vegetable oil molecules you
ingest end up in your lymph system, until they're unceremoniously emptied into your blood at your neck, by
the way? I was completely surprised by that when I learned it, and wondered why on earth the lymph system
would be involved in this at all, since as far as I knew it was a detoxifying system, not a food-nutrient-transporting one.

So I looked into it, and in a still-unfinished way, here's what I've found. Your intestines (and digestive tract in
general) have a lot more jobs than I thought, and are connected in all sorts of overlapping ways to other body systems. There's the enteric nervous system, which according to Wikipedia is the only part of the peripheral nervous system that contains complete reflex circuits capable of local, autonomous function. So the phrase 'going by your gut' may reflect the fact that your gut really thinks, in its own way. There are more
neurons concentrated in there than anywhere else outside your brain/spine. Also, your intestines have a special relationship to your immune system. Who knew? Yet, it makes sense -- germs are constantly coming in by that route. Your body is not just going to wait and try to detect them in your bloodstream, it's going to try to catch them before they even get there! Your immune system embeds special patches of lymph tissue into the lining of your small intestine to 'sample' what's going through you and mount an immediate response, before the offending germ or molecule is even quite all absorbed into your bloodstream. Simply amazing. Add into this picture the newly emerging research on our vast microbiome, and you've got quite a confluence of interesting, quirky factors in your tummy.

So, back to fat. Here's my big leap of no evidence (there's your scientific disclaimer). I have a theory that
much of that really long, polyunsaturated oil that our Western diet is full of gets misdirected. Take, for example, highly chemically-processed and genetically-modified corn oil -- say some of it makes it to the bloodstream and is used for energy, but a lot of the extra overloads the liver; also, as it's getting packaged and picked up by lymph in the intestine, maybe some of it gets tagged by a patch as toxic (not a huge stretch of imagination), causing constant inflammatory responses.

I just don't think our bodies know how to handle it all, and a lot of proverbial wires get crossed at the very least. At worst, we may be putting it all into our 'muffin tops', padding our liver with it, and still depriving our body of some essential building blocks. Much of the highly polyunsaturated oil we consume is literally impossible to get in nature, it's only through intense chemical/technological manipulation that it's even a product we can use. I wonder what effect that massive dietary shift has had on that complex neural/bacterial/immune relationship in our gut, that we're just beginning to understand? Top our diets off with too little fiber and piles of sugar, and our poor bodies are suffering rather an onslaught.

So, the real takeaway: I believe saturated fats and cholesterol are good for you, and not scary enemies. I realize it's a hard sell. Even in my own house, I have to cajole my husband (who feels like he's constantly fighting the good fight against middle-aged spread, valiant man) to put some cream on his oatmeal. But I keep coming across more and more good reasons all the time. Check a few out if you're interested.

(Or pick up a copy of Real Food by Nina Planck, I can't recommend it enough. But I'll warn you it makes you hungry to read!)
http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23674795
http://www.lewrockwell.com/2010/06/joseph-mercola/eat-more-saturated-fat/
http://www.cholesterol-and-health.com/


One thing that makes me sad is what an uphill fight it is to get saturated fat absolved in mainstream media. There are still so many magazines, websites, and well-intentioned professionals whose information is out of date but who are still happily parroting the 30-year campaign slogans. And trying to get funds to study the positive effects of saturated fat is still a career-killer, unfortunately, which means that the best and brightest are not the ones pushing for real answers, they've gone in other more promising directions. Does someone
want to professionally research Peyer's patches for me??






Submitted from the Blog http://karrotsoup.blogspot.com/2013/09/why-im-not-afraid-of-fat.html



Thursday, January 9, 2014

Penny Pinchin': Always Go Generic!

Always Go Generic!

Cleaning Supplies:
Dollar Store. Dollar General. The Dollar Tree.

And no, I'm not kidding.

Let me let you in on a little secret. That $6 bottle of cleaner by that name brand you love? The same exact ingredients are four bucks cheaper two shelves down. In the generic brand. And by generic I mean the "Name Brand" version of a generic! Seriously! Most mainstream companies have the same product, in the same packaging in a slightly different design for about 30% of the cost. Don't believe me? Next time you're shopping for cleaning supplies, check the back. I've often found a "Product of Scrubbing Bubbles" label on a strangely named cleaning product. Sneaky, sneaky marketers!

Drugs are probably the easiest item to feel safe about buying generic. Kind of strange, right? In fact, Walmart has an 88 cent station! It has anything from hydrogen peroxide, alcohol, bandaids, and medicines. While this may be tempting, this isn't always the greatest deal. I bought some Naproxen Sodium (also marketed as Aleve) for 88 cents! What I failed to notice is that there were only 15 tablets in the bottle. Steal? Not quite.

I soon stumbled upon the bottle for 100 tables for around $4. To be fair it was still the Walmart Equate version. Cheaper isn't always better! Don't be silly like I am sometimes and disregard the black and white on the bottle. I learned my lesson.

Mucinex is Guaifenesen.  
Guaifenesen is Mucinex. 
Guaifenesen can be found at the Dollar Store! 

Why pay $10 for Mucinex when all they're doing is jacking up the price of something, giving it awful cartoon characters, and a cute purple and green box? Not fallin' for that one, Sparky!

Gross, right?


Motrin is Ibuprofen.
Cortef is Hydrocortisone.
See?

If your doctor prescribes anything for you, ask them if there is a generic brand of the same product. Especially prescribed medicines. You'll save much more by getting the generic version and it's the exact same!

See this article here: http://www.cbsnews.com/2100-3480_162-6598113.html


Does the "Brand Name" really taste better?

Here's another interesting article on store brand versus name brand:

"A "Good Morning America" audience member named Ron tried both the store brand and the brand name and chose the store brand."

"Want to do the mashed potato? Instant is the way to go. The great value for Wal-Mart had more potato flavor at half the price," said Walker. Consumer Reports found the Betty Crocker brand a little starchy with a dehydrated potato taste."

Interesting.
http://abcnews.go.com/GMA/brand-names-off-brand-wins/story?id=8483239#.UVb7T1t4ZTs

Habits and Traditions

I am a creature of habit! If I find a delicious cereal, meal, or drink, I stay with it. If I know it's good, why change? Ahh...that's what they want you to do! I'm not necessarily a strictly brand loyal shopper, but I do have my favorites.

What if I'm paying too much for the same thing? What if I'm paying too much for something less fulfilling than generic?

We all have our different tastes.

I grew up in a home loaded with generic brands. Typically, the only time we had the name brand was if it was on sale, had a coupon, or both! Many times the store ended up paying my mom for the items she bought! She was by no means one of those crazy coupon ladies, but she set a goal to always save more than she spent. Publix has great deals. She will often leave spending around $50 but saving $65. So awesome.

Has anyone ever heard of ALDI? I would LOVE LOVE LOVE to have an ALDI out here! They are the king of generic brands. Their produce is fantastic and dirt cheap.

I just jumped onto their website and LOL'D.  Like for real lawl'd. My husband thinks I'm crazy. Their website, at the very top, states:


"We don't price match 
because that would mean raising our prices."



I love them. Go to their website to find a store near you. I promise you will love them. They are bright, clean, and cheap! They do carry quite a few name brand items, but not a ton.


This is the place I found the name brand cleaning items under a generic brand! I love it.

The have what's called a "Double Guarantee" meaning if your watermelon is gross when you bring it home, you can bring it back for a whole new one and get your money back for the item. Their website states: 

"Quality, taste and satisfaction are always DOUBLE guaranteed at ALDI. 
If for any reason, you are not 100% satisfied with any product, we will gladly replace the product AND refund your money."

That's an awesome business if you ask me!

Stay tuned for more tips and tricks on how to make your own cleaning product, laundry detergent, and more!

Do you have any tips to share with us? We'd love to hear from you!
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The Reality of Being a Mom

So I was thinking today about how much kids really change your life. In fact, I realized that they steal your life. They take all the things that you worked so hard to get. They take your money, your sleep, your food, and your freedom. They take your time, your patience, and sometimes even your soul. But... They replace all those things with something words can't describe. All the things I thought I would want, all the things money can buy, no longer have value. I have learned to operate on less then a third of the sleep that I used to need. I get more out of my day, and waste less time in bed. I have learned to enjoy more time in the kitchen and have so much fun baking with my kids. I am no longer free to do whatever I want, when I want, but my day has so much more meaning. I am never alone , but I am cuddled all day long. I have lost my patience more then once but I have gained an appreciation for my mom, that I never would have otherwise. And they have taken my soul and changed everything about me. They made me better then I ever could have been. I have six reasons to try harder every day and make the most out of LIFE.

Finding Mom Role Models

 One of a mother's greatest fears is that we don't know what we are doing and that we are going to mess up. We worry that we are the only ones who either didn't get the secret "How to be an Amazing Mom" handbook, or even worse, that there is no handbook, and we are the only ones who have no idea what we are doing. Even after 6 children, I still feel clueless. As if parenthood wasn't hard enough, each child is so different that the parenting tactics that were so effective with one child are suddenly worthless with the next.
    But I found a secret weapon!
            As a teenager, I had a rather grim opinion of motherhood. I figured it was something women just did to be normal. It was just part of life. I wasn't able to see any benefits to motherhood but I could see a ton of negatives.
           There was a woman at my church who had eight children.  I'll call her Mrs. S. Her oldest was my age. With my bleak outlook on parenting as a whole, I had a rather poor opinion of her as a person. I figured that no sane person would purposely have nine children and that she must not have been educated enough to know about birth control. Fast forward four years and I was lost in the throws of motherhood, the only one of my friends married and the first to have a baby. When my daughter was 3 months old, Mrs. S had baby number 9. She called me up out of the blue one day and asked me to come over and give her some advice. Of course, I was very confused as to what advice me, a new mom, could possibly give to someone with so much more experience. When I arrived at her home and we finished oohing and aahing over each others babies, she told me about some problems she was having breastfeeding and wanted to know if I had any ideas.
           Over the last 8 years, Mrs. S has become one of my closest friends and greatest resources. I visit her weekly if possible. Every one of her children are not only well behaved, kind, and successful in their own right, but each one of them knows how much their parents love them.  Our girls have become best friends and even my son has found friendship with her sons. I soak up every bit of advice she has to give and watch her every move. I ask questions about about how and why she does things. I share my experiences with her and see if there is any way to put her parenting tactics to use in my own home. She helps me work through problems by giving me a spectators point of view.
           There are many other mothers in my life that I constantly preen advice from. I question all of them without judgement and take what advice I think will work for my family. I found that that is my secret "How To be an Amazing Mom", handbook: my collections of friends and their advice.
         That day eight years before had been more for my benefit then for Mrs. S. By asking for my help, Mrs. S had given me my first bit of self esteem as a mother. She made me feel that I had something to give, that maybe, just maybe, I might know how to be a mom. I hope to be able to pass on the favor.


           

Our Journey with Food Allergies Part 2

 During the first month of our new diet, C's health rapidly improved, but even more amazing was that all of my children got healthier. Our oldest daughter N had been a very fussy baby and since she was our first, we were really unsure of what to do. Things only got worse when I had to switch her to formula at 5 months because my milk had dried up. She had horrible constipation that required weekly suppositories and daily prune juice. Trying to get a 7 month old to drink prune juice is not a fun experience and neither is putting a suppository up their tush. We even spent a few days in the hospital when she started having problems breathing because she was so backed up. When she started kindergarten we had to pack extra clothes with her because she  often had accidents because every time she had to pee we had to get her to a toilet immediately. She wasn't holding it too long or procrastinating going, she just had to go that bad when she had to go. She often complained of stomach pain and that her body ached, really, she just complained often so I would not take it quite as seriously. She also had a rash on the back of her skin called Keratosis Pilaris http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/keratosis-pilaris/DS00769. It is hereditary, but not the way we thought. During the first week of changing our diet to strictly fruit and vegetables, N no longer had to run to the potty in order to make it there on time. By the second week, her stomach aches were gone and by the end of the month, the rash on her arms was almost completely gone.
   Our daughter B had developed eczema when she was 2 years old and by the end of the first month she it was nearly gone off her elbows and knees. J our oldest boy was our biggest ball of energy. He also had the Keratosis Pilaris which was healing up and we even noticed he started listening better. Lastly our baby K's diarrhea took the longest to resolve but by the end of the month everyone was doing better, even hubby and I had noticed changes.  Hubby's Keratosis Pilaris was getting better but wasn't gone, he had lost 25 pounds,  dandruff was better and even his psoriasis was gone. We both noticed that our afternoon "brain fog" was gone and that we needed less sleep to feel well rested. My biggest change was that the severe neck pain that I had for the last 5 years was gone.
   After the first month we new we needed to add in some other foods. Cutting up fruit and vegetables all day long was really hard on me and a dinner of broccoli and potatoes would not cut it with our extended family. The first two foods we added back in was rice and beans. Healthy Mexican food was our new favorite thing. Our next food item was nuts which was wonderful because we discovered we could make "mayonaise" and "sour cream" out of cashews! http://www.savvyvegetarian.com/vegetarian-recipes/cashew-mayonnaise-recipe.php http://www.theglutenfreevegan.com/2011/11/homemade-vegan-sour-cream/
   Everyone stayed healthy we were doing so good that we decided to give some of our old foods a try. C first exposure to dairy led to a mild attack that we were able to handle at home with inhalers and and her nebulizer but her second exposure was almost a trip to the hospital. She had similar reactions to even a small amount of gluten. My opinion is that the two together are what caused such a severe attacks that even her high doses of medications couldn't control. Definitely not worth it.  N had gluten twice and both times was left with urinary urgency and a stomach ache that lasted for two days. Eggs, dairy, and gluten all cause B's eczema to come back. If we have eggs more then once in a week she even reminds me that it hurts her and asks me to find her something else to eat. J bounces off the walls when ever he eats something he shouldn't which is worse for me then him. I did feed baby K a mint chocolate cookie and he broke out in hives from head to toe. So we have all decided gluten and dairy are just off limits for our family.
   There are tons of gluten free and dairy free alternatives out there and even more recipe blogs. My one piece of kitchen equipment that I had to buy was a bread maker. http://www.amazon.com/Cuisinart-CBK-100-2-Pound-Programmable-Breadmaker/dp/B001C2KY7Y/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1375110470&amp;sr=8-2&amp;keywords=bread+maker  As a large family, buying the tiny gluten free bread loaves at $5 for 7 slices of bread just isn't an option and Red Mill brand makes some great dairy free and gluten free bread mixes. I also just bought an ice cream maker because we discovered soy ice cream!! It's not quite the same but every kid needs ice cream, but again, $7 a pint is killer. There is even soy and almond yogurt!
 My last tip is that gluten free and dairy free foods are easy to find and much cheaper on Amazon.


Our Journey with Food Allergies Part 2

Our Journey with Food Allergies Part 1

 My pregnancy with C was pretty normal. We had a scare after my 20 week ultrasound that some of her measurements were off and the doctors thought there was a possibility of Down's syndrome. After several more tests and another ultrasound, we were told everything looked great and we had nothing to worry about. She was born in July with her eyes wide open and made hardly a peep for the next two days. She was a pretty easy baby and did really well while I was breastfeeding her. Unfortunately, I have never been able to breastfeed for more then 5 months and had to switch her to formula. Over the next few months she continued to get up several times a night screaming but would calm down after we fed her a bottle but we went through a ton of formula. We were so happy the day she turned 1 and we could switch to milk instead.
    Shortly after her first birthday, my mom and I decided to take a road trip with all four kids, up to my parents cabin which was a 6 hour drive. I packed the usual snacks: cheerios, bananas, cheeze-its, and a whole gallon of milk to survive the ride. C, like most one year olds was not a fan of being trapped in her car-seat, so we kept refilling her sippy cup with milk and passing out the cheerios. The second day at the cabin C started having diarrhea. It was constant. We were going through 10 or more diapers a day and she was up several times a night crying. She got horrible diaper rash that was so bad her skin was peeling off her. We stayed at the cabin for two weeks and the poor thing had diarrhea the whole time and not normal diarrhea, it was pale and fatty looking and smelled worse then anything I had ever smelled. I called our family doctor on the way home and set an appointment for the next day.
    Fast forward four months and C still has diarrhea. My doctor had run out of tests to run on our daughter and so we were sent to GI specialists at one of the best children's hospitals who told me that since C was still growing it must be Toddlers diarrhea, which basically meant I was giving her too much juice. I tried to explain that she had one glass of juice a day and it was watered down. The doctor reexplained that she was still gaining weight so she was fine and that she would see us in three months. It didn't seem to matter to the doctor that my daughter's backside was missing several layers of skin.
      I also need to add in here because of my personal feeling on the matter, my kids are on a delayed vaccination schedule and since C had been sick her vaccinations were very behind.
     We returned to our family doctor for a check up and C was given two vaccinations to try and get her caught up with the regular vaccination schedule. 24 hours later we were in the ER and C was diagnosed with pneumonia. We never made it back to the GI doctor for our 3 month check-up because C developed breathing problems. Since she was under the age of 3 she was never given the diagnosis of asthma but we spent at least 6 days of every month over the next year in the hospital with severe asthma attacks. C was put on 3 different medications including 2 steroids to try and keeps her attacks under control. Her diarrhea did eventually stop, but now we had a new problem. Every time C received a vaccination, we were in the hospital 24 hours later with pneumonia. Luckily our family doctor saw the pattern and has put all vaccinations on hold. Even without the vaccinations though, every time C got a runny nose we knew an attack was going to be happening soon.
   We were eventually sent to an allergist and had a whole battery of tests run on C to try and figure out what was causing her attacks. Everything came back negative.
   C last major attack was June of 2012. We celebrated my dad's birthday one night with cake and ice cream. By 11 p.m. we had given her every medication we had at home, her inhalers and nebulizer treatments, and C could still barely breath. My husband took her to the E.R. and I sat at home with our other children. An hour later he called me asking about what a tracheotomy was and how bad was it that her O2 level was in the 70's. In the background I heard two people arguing about who had to be the one to give her the tracheotomy when the child couldn't handle anesthesia and who would hold her down while they were cutting.  I wanted to run to the hospital right then but I had 3 other sleeping children at my house. While I was still on the phone I heard what I assume to be a nurse yell that C's O2 stats jumped to 83% and the doctors got quiet. I asked my husband what was happening and he said all the doctors went just outside the room and were talking and he would call me back.
    C was in the hospital for 3 more days and was eventually released with 2 more medications to take every day. When we finally returned the following week to the doctor for our check-up, we were given horrible news. We were told that no one had any idea what was causing her attacks and that if C stayed on these medications she would have kidney failure, but if she continued to have her attacks, she would need that tracheotomy. The doctor mentioned the possibility of celiac's disease but said that she could not be tested because the test would require someone so young to need anesthesia and C would most likely not survive anesthesia.
  We were so lost. The following week our 8 month old baby started with the same smelly strange diarrhea as C. I knew I couldn't watch another child go through the same health challenges, so we made another appointment with our family doctor to see if there was anything else we could do. After reviewing all of Cs tests and lab work from the last year and a half, she suggested we just assume it was a food allergy. She said we had to eliminate everything from her diet. Everything. Just feed her vegetables and lean meats, and see what happened. The only problem was that C was a very sneaky little girl. She would go in the pantry and find food or grab food off her siblings plates when we were doing dishes, so the only way to make sure she did not get any food that would hurt her, the whole family had to eat the same way. We had also decided that because the diet was so strict it would be cruel if C had to watch the rest of us eat food she liked so we were going to do this as a team!
    After our doctor had suggested that we treat her attacks as food allergy reactions, I started researching everything I could about food allergies. Her symptoms eliminated most food allergies except dairy and gluten allergies and because C's lab work had shown that she had a very high level of inflammation, her symptoms matched Celiac's disease. http://www.celiaccenter.org/symptoms.asp  I also noticed that several of my other children had symptoms on the list of gluten sensitivity. http://www.celiaccenter.org/gluten_faq.asp#symptoms
I realized that maybe this team work approach would probably really benefit all of my children and not just C. The other thing I realized was that many of the symptoms of a dairy allergy and a gluten allergy were very similar so we needed to avoid both. I had noticed very early on when C's attacks first started that every time she had milk, she would get a runny nose and she would get discharge coming out of her ears. GROSS.
   Here is a list of some of the other site that I found really helpful:
Dairy Allergy-

Gluten Intolerance/Celiac Disease-

       I also began watching several documentaries, trying to find out as much information as possible about how food affects our bodies and to see if there was anything else we should be doing to get our daughter healthy and basically save her life. One of the first documentaries we watched was "Forks over Knives". There was so much great information in the documentary but one of the most important piece of information that we needed right then was that the animal protein Casein, was found in anything that came an animals, including meat and dairy products, causes inflammation in our bodies when we consume it. Since inflammation was C's biggest problem we decided to eliminate meat from our diet too. I spent the next week getting rid of just about all of the food in our house. It turns out that dairy is in just about everything. We learned to not only read ingredients in our food better, but that dairy was often not listed in the ingredients and we had to check for the tiny D symbol on the front of packages to know for sure that it was dairy free.
    For a whole month we ate only fresh fruit and vegetables. It was hard and the kids complained and what made it even harder was that even our extended family complained. No one believed that food allergies could cause the problems that C had and that we would starve to death without meat, dairy, and gluten in our diet.  
Here are some of the other documentaries we really loved:
"Fat,Sick,and Nearly Dead"
"Food Inc."
"Vegucated"
"The Gerson Miracle"

  The results we had in just one month was amazing. C was off all medications, no attacks, no runny nose, no ear problems, the swelling in her face went away and she was finally sleeping good! We also saw dramatic improvements in our whole family. I will post about that soon!








Monday, January 6, 2014

Cloth Diaper Debate

When I first told my friends and family that I was planning to use cloth diapers for my baby I received some funny looks and comments like “Really? Aren’t those the ones you have to put the weird plastic pampers over?”…or… “I could never use those, it’s sounds like too much of a mess to deal with.” I’ll confess I was super nervous at first, but after using them for the past 18 months I absolutely love them! It’s depressing when I have to buy disposable diapers now when we’re on vacation… they’re so expensive.
So for those of you debating the idea of going the cloth route, I thought I’d share the good and bad about using cloth diapers.
Let’s talk about the “pro’s” first. 
  1. Huge Money Saver! Although they are an investment up front, in the long run they’ll save you so much money compared to the cost of disposable diapers. A starter pack of 12 cloth diapers will cost anywhere from $150-$200. Disposable diapers can cost up to $40/month or $480/year!!! And as long as you take care of your cloth diapers, they should last for years (Hoping mine last through multiple children too).
  2. Eco-Friendly. The average full-time diapered baby uses 5000-8000 disposable diapers before being potty-trained and 3.5 million tons of disposable diapers are sent to land-fills each year! So go Green!
  3. So cute! They have some awesome colors and fun patterns for cloth diapers. I love watching my little girl waddle around in her diapers, absolutely adorable.
  4. Comfy for Baby. My daughter loves her cloth diapers. They’re so soft and she rarely gets diaper rash.
Now for the “cons”:
  1. Time consuming. Fact is, it’s much faster to throw away a disposable diaper after a change than it to cloth diaper. With cloth you have to rinse them (which isn’t too bad if you buy a toilet attachment to spray the nasty’s directly into the toilet), then wash them, and then fold them for the next cycle. If I wasn’t a stay-at-home mom I don’t think I’d have the time to do it.
  2. Not convenient for travel. I do carry re-usable wet bags with me for diaper changes when we’re out and about, but when we’re traveling for several days we use disposable diapers. Packing enough cloth diapers for more the a few days takes up way too much space in a suitcase, and there’s no way I’m gonna carry nasty diapers around for longer than a few hours.
  3. “Stripping” diapers. After 3-4 months of using our cloth diapers they started to get this rancid ammonia smell! I had never heard of needing to “strip” cloth diapers until I asked my fellow mammas about my issue. It’s basically a super washing process to strip out any buildup in the diapers and get rid of the funky smell.
  4. Need special products. In order to maintain the water proof barrier in the diapers you can’t use the usual diaper rash creams or standard laundry detergents. I’ve discovered more natural remedies for diaper rash and even found one cream that is safe on my diapers (Weleda - amazing stuff). There are several laundry detergents you can find online that are safe to use, but after a year of buying the special detergents I started making my own.
Personally, I feel that the pro’s out way the con’s when it comes to using cloth diapers; but everyone is different.

New Year's Eve with Kids?

The day before New Years Eve I was racking my brain trying to come up with something we could do to ring in the New Year. Our daughter goes to bed around 7:00 pm… there was no way I was going to attempt going anywhere or keeping her up til midnight. Last year we were visiting family for the holiday, so we just put the babies to bed and partied til midnight… but this year it was gonna be just me, my hubby, and the baby. This was going to be the saddest New Years ever!!! What do people with small children do to celebrate New Years?

Then I had an epiphany... who said we had to ring in 2014 AT midnight… why not celebrate early, like 7:00 pm! I knew I couldn’t be the only parent wishing for something to do on New Years Eve, so I texted my fellow mammas to see if anyone was interested in celebrating early with us and they loved the idea!

Dinner was a spread of salads and appetizers that everyone brought. It was a little chaotic having so many kids in the house, but at least we got to enjoy a little adult conversation while the kids played. Rather than watching the ball drop on TV we did our own count-down then dropped an exercise ball from standing on the couch (a little cheesy, but it was fun). We also did popper’s and sparkler’s outside with the little ones (they were so excited)!
 It definitely wasn't the wild and crazy celebration that most expect on New Years Eve… but we’re in a different phase of life now… we’re parents. I thought the party was a success! We had a great time with friends, ate good food, kids were in bed on time, and, to top it all off, Hubby and I were asleep by 10:30 without feeling like total losers. This may become a yearly tradition for our family! Next year we’ll plan ahead better, maybe have the kids decorate their own party hats or something fun like that. Anyone have any other suggestions or ideas? 

Feeding a Picky Eater --- Dietitian Perspective

As a Dietitian, one of the most common questions I hear from fellow mom’s is “my child is the pickiest eater in the world, what do I do?”  Now I am not here to preach how or what parents should feed their children. I’m just here to share what I do know, in hopes that it will be helpful to someone; maybe provide a new perspective, idea, or even just hope. Parents want to do what’s best for their kids and want them to be healthy.  But when you have a 3 year old screaming about how much they hate what you made for dinner and are demanding macaroni & cheese (for the third time that day), your nerves wear thin and it’s easiest to just give them what they want. Don’t feel guilty, even the best of us have caved at some point.

I consider myself a very practical dietitian… I’m a firm believer that there’s no such thing as bad foods, but bad habits.  There are foods we shouldn’t eat as often, but in moderation are fine. It’s important to eat a variety from all the food groups; especially fruits and vegetables.  In an idealistic world, our children would happily eat everything we put in front of them and would beg for a 2nd helping of broccoli, but I’m sure most mom’s will agree that this is far from reality.

I’m a huge fan of Ellen Satter’s book, “How to Get Your Kid to Eat, But Not Too Much.” She does a great job of simplifying the eating roles of parents and children, which really helps me see the bigger picture. Food is an essential part of our lives, and for children it's also a learning tool. In Satter’s book each chapter goes through the different age groups from infancy through adolescence. She also covers unique subjects like feeding children with special needs like autism, down syndrome, and feeding issues. So if you’re in need of more in depth help, I would definitely recommend reading her book. 

The fact is, it is totally normal for kids to go through picky phases.  But it’s important that we stay positive, keeping the mind-set that one day our children will like most foods. Think back to when you were a child.  When I was a kid I hated onion, mushrooms, fish, dark chocolate, grapefruit, and cauliflower…. all of which I LOVE now. Our taste buds mature. As long as we help our kids develop good eating habits young, set clear rules, and keep the dinner table a positive environment, their food “like list” will eventually grow. Here are the top 12 rules I’ve come up with for feeding kids. 
  1. Stick to your roles. Parents, your role is to (A) provide healthy food for your kids, and (B) present it in a way that they can eat it (ex: cutting meat for young children, pureeing foods for infant etc.). A child’s role is to determine (A) how much they eat, and (B) what they eat from the foods you provide. Children have a natural ability to regulate when they are full. Kids aren’t born with the idea that they have to finish everything on their plate… but many adults think that way because it’s what we were raised to do. We weren’t allowed to leave the table until our plate was empty. The fact is, kids are always growing at changing rates… for a while they may be “bottomless pits” that constantly eat, and other times a few bites is all they need. But when we force them to eat more than they should we’re training them not to listen to their bodies. It’s hard to do sometimes, but if you can step back and focus on your role of providing the food and let them do determine how much; it’ll make dinner time less stressful.
  2. Establish basic rules for your kitchen. As Mom or Dad, you’re in charge of the food. Now I’m not saying you need to become “the soup Nazi” or anything, but it’ll make your life easier if you set a few ground rules for your kitchen. For example, only eating in the kitchen, nothing other than water in the living room, or having a designated cupboard or shelf for snacks. It’s also smart to establish what your family’s dinner time rules are. My personal meal-time rule is that you can have anything on the table for dinner, but mom doesn’t make anything else. Even if the only thing on the table they want is bread… that’s fine, but I refuse to be a “cook to order chef.” Other examples could be using basic manners, taking your plate to the sink afterwards, or rotating who blesses the food.
  3. Keep it a positive environment.  Despite our best intentions as we try to force our child to eat their broccoli, starting a war over it may only make matters worse. Children will associate those negative feels to that food. No one likes to be forced to do something. It’s great to encourage, set a good example, and show positive reinforcement, but try to avoid making their first experience with a food a bad one. Also, try to keep the conversation at dinner positive. If there’s a subject you know is touchy with your teen, wait to discuss it after dinner. Dinner is the perfect time to socialize and bond as a family, but it’s a horrible time to argue.
  4. Set a good example. Bottom line… kids learn by example. If mom or dad are open to eating something new, most likely their kids will follow (maybe not immediately, but eventually). I worked with a young mother years ago who couldn’t stand vegetables and only liked a few fruits. She was so worried about passing on her bad eating habits to her two small children, so she made every effort to offer them a variety and to keep her personal food opinions/dislikes to herself. Slowly she and I worked on getting her to try new fruits & vegetables as well. Impressively her kids ended up LOVING most of the fruits and vegetables she offered them. So if you have a bad opinion or aversion to a certain food, keep those thoughts to yourself.
  5. Create a schedule. It’s really easy to fall into the grazing habit, especially if you have young children.  My toddler could snack all day if I let her. Snacking isn’t bad, but the majority of nutrients kids need come from actual meals. If I let my daughter snack all afternoon (yes… it happens sometimes), she isn’t hungry when I serve dinner. So setting a rough meal & snack schedule for your family, will allow them enough time between eating to actually get hungry again. This can be EXTREMELY hard with toddlers, and you may have to deal with a few tantrums, but it’s worth it. If their begging for another snack an hour before dinner try to get them involved in an activity or something else to pass the time. This should not be a rigid eating schedule, just a simple way for you to know when to offer snacks and prep meals.
  6. Keep offering good foods. Studies have proven that it can take 10-15 times of trying/tasting a new food before it’s accepted. So don’t give up, and try not to make it into a war. Sometimes, just getting a child to TRY something once is a struggle… so you may need a new approach. To a child there is a big difference between putting something in your mouth vs eating it… so rather than asking them to eat something, try asking them to simply put it in their mouth to taste and if they don’t like it they can quietly spit it into a napkin. Just keep telling yourself “eventually my child will like most foods."
  7. Choose between two good options. Part of growing up is learning to make choices, and kids want to have an opinion (some are very vocal about it). So give them choices, but try to avoid open ended options like “what do you want for lunch… or snack… or breakfast?” They're probably going to pick whatever their latest food obsession is every time… macaroni and cheese… grilled cheese… pizza… etc. So give them the option between two or three smart options. For example “do you want grapes, apples, or oranges slices for your snack?” or “should we make spaghetti or stir fry for dinner?” You may still hear “I don’t like any of those, I want this” from time to time, but try to stick to your guns, maybe negotiate a little… “you can’t have that now, but if you eat a fruit now we can make that an option for our afternoon snack later today.” Try to make it a win-win situation.
  8. Offer healthier options first. If you’re really struggling to get your child to eat their vegetables or fruit, try offering that food at the beginning of the meal when they are most hungry. When kids are hungry enough they’ll eat. It may still take several tries, but they are more likely to try something new if it’s offered when they’re hungry. 
  9. Avoid bribery. It’s tempting to use the classic food bribes to get children to eat something, but try your best to avoid it. Using dessert as a reward for eating their veggies or other healthy options sends a  message that dessert is the good food worth eating and the veggies are bad/undesirable food. It's also another form of pressure. 
  10. Appropriate portions. Giving a small child an adult size portion can be overwhelming and may discourage them from eating at all. Seeing a plate that appears hardly touched is also frustrating for the parent. It's always better to start small, and allow for seconds. A good rule of thumb for guessing portions for children is a tablespoon for each yar old they are. So a 1 year old would get a 1 T. of peas, 1 T. of mashed potatoes, and a 1 T. of chopped chicken for dinner. 
  11. Get your kids involved. Be as creative as you want with this! Kids are more likely to be interested in trying new foods if their involved in the process. As frustrating and messy as it can be, find things they can do to help you make dinner. I was in awe at my sister-in-laws house as my four year old nephew helped crack a dozen eggs to help make quiche for dinner! Obviously you won’t let a toddler chop, but maybe they could pour something in the bowl or take a turn stirring the pot. Maybe let them pick out a new fruit or vegetable to try at the grocery store. Help them plant a small vegetable garden. Let them be in charge of snack time or lunch one day a week. If their involved, they’ll be interested.
  12. Lighten up. Children can get overwhelmed when there’s too much pressure to eat. Pressure turns it into a control issue rather than a food issue. When kids are hungry enough they will eat, so relax, focus on providing the food and let your child do the rest.
If you're struggling with a picky eater and these approaches sound overwhelming, start small. Pick one or two realistic things you'd like to work on. Once you and your family have those good habits down, then you can add more. Keep in mind, these are not quick fixes, forming a new habit can take months (or longer). So be patient and don't be so hard on yourself. Celebrate even the small victories! As long as your child is growing normal, they are getting adequate nutrition (even the kid on a steady Mac'n cheese diet grows).